Honesty

Remember when we were young and we used to say silly lies to other people? For several reasons. The most common was to impress someone and make them admire us. Sometimes we just wanted to gather the attention of other people.

 Later on we realize that lies could help us or ruin us. Because once others realize we say lies, the result could be really bad.


I never like telling lies, for several reasons. 1st: I am not feeling comfortable enough to tell lies, I feel really bad and after all I can say that I feel guilty. 2nd: when you tell lies you have to remember your lies and 3rd: you have to find ways for the others not to realize the lie you just told.

As you can see there are so many reasons not to tell lies. But I cannot find reasons to tell a lie.. The cons overweight the pros as you can see..

When it comes to relationships, I think lies could ruin the whole idea. Maybe not the moment you tell lies, but later on, you realize that lies could turn into disaster.

Why telling lies? even small little tiny lies, why? there is no reason to share a life with someone and letting him/her know something that it is not 100% true...

I couldn't help but wonder, why do we tell lies even when we want to have a serious relationship?

Plan B

Today I was thinking about dreaming and setting goals in life. How can we set up our own goals in life? what makes us know that this goal is what we actually want to do in our life. And what if we set up for a goal, do anything about it, reach our target but in the end we realize that it was not ehat we actually want to do? What's plan B?

It is true that you may have a second chance. But I cannot get the point of that. What's the purpose of setting up a very difficult goal but in the end realizing that it was not what we actually want...

Is there any plan of knowing that our goal it's correct. Because in some cases we may change as years pass by and realizing that we do not want the same things anymore. We may want something really much and feeling like it is what we should do... but in some years we may change our minds. So, what's plan B?

I couldn't help but wonder, how do we know that our choices is what we'll always want?

After dreaming period of time

There are so many quotes about dreaming. So many things to say to somebody about following your dreams and stuff like make your dreams come true.

It's all about achieving your goals. Goals of lifetime or just simply goals that you made during your adolescence.

It is so easy to find things to say to help yourself keep fighting for the goals you have plan.

But what happens after you achieve your goal? 

What happens when you manage to make your dream come true? I'm not talking about easy little goals you set up every day. I'm talking about dreams that you are planning for long time, that you fight for them everyday and you're doing your best.

What's next? setting up new dreams? go for another goal? and what if we set up our next dream redundantly and it could not be what we really want?

What are we suppose to say to ourselves when we manage to make a big dream come true?

 

/uniDorn

Feels like I am walking on air

How does it feels when you are flying from one place to another?

While I was looking some random pictures I have in my computer, I figure out that lately I have been traveling a lot.

Every time I am on a bus or on a plane I have the same feeling that I am leaving everything behind and going somewhere new. To see new places to do new stuff meet new people...

Is it true that our experiences make us different kind of persons? while we are traveling are we leaving our selves behind?

and what's happening when we return home? Are we the same person? 

Does our experiences change the way we see things from now on?

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/uniDorn

Blogging

it is a fact that nowadays many people have a space on the internet where they can write and post whatever they want (and i am not referring to facebook).

this is what i am doing right now actually.

why do we need this space on the internet to post our thoughts or our memories or just facts. it is difficult to just have our thoughts to a notebook or a photo album

I couldn't help but wonder, why blogging?

I think it is time for me to find out some things through blogging.

so, let's start.

/uniDorn